LOVE

Love, I never thought i'd be writing on this topic but lets give it a go. The meaning of Love is different for everyone, every person have their own perceptions on it. For me love is spreading happiness. Love has many forms like the love of a mother, pure and strong. Love of a father, protective and helping. Love of a sister supportive and understanding. Love of friends, fun and full of life. Love of secret admirers, secretive and full of desires. Love of a husband/wife, pillar of support and unconditional. Love of a lover, fierce and passionate.

Different relations showcase different kinds of love. Love also gives birth to different kinds of feelings like 'Jealousy' , 'Possessiveness' , 'Compassion' , 'Insecurity', 'Intensity' and 'Sensitivity'. There are many more emotions that are induced because of love. But people tend to only take interest in the love that is for an opposite gender. So lets talk a little on it.

Love may not always have the destination you want it to have or the one you have always dreamt of. It certainly doesn't mean you are a failure. Sometimes the person you may love is never meant to be yours. And that gives rise to another more important thing on this love topic and that is called Fate. Fate may only allow you to have that specific person in your life for a small amount of time just to explain you the meaning of Love. Love always doesn't mean of of having the person in your life forever. Neither do i believe that once that special person is not a part of your life anymore, the feelings die. And i don't want to only give the idea that love is unattainable. No, you need to try the level best to try your luck in love. Try your level best and struggle to make your desire turn reality. To make the person yours, you may have to walk rough paths. But not always the person you love or want so badly is meant to be.  And here i will disclose one more important thing in the topic of Love and that is 'Patience'. Have patience , not always rush. The thing you want so badly right now, may be in your fate at the very moment. So have patience and believe in God that he has planned something very best for you. As it is said that no success comes without struggle. Try try again until you have it.

There is a timing for everything, wait for it. As SHAKESPEARE said:

'The course of true love never did run smooth'

Now it is time for another very important thing in love to be penned down and that is to 'LET GO'. This certainly doesn't mean to let go of your feelings for your loved one. You might never get over the love for the person no matter what. But at some point of life after continuous struggles, if you are not successful in making place in the person's heart you love the most, then it is time you realise to let go and let fate do its things. Sometimes the person you think is good for you may never be good for you. Might be God has better plans for you which you may not realise at the very moment, But with time thing will tend to fall in their places so just let go and wish the very best of luck to the other person. I think there is no feeling as pure to love a person from afar knowing that you might never have him/her but you still wish the best for them in life. Sometimes circumstances might never be on your side, so learn to settle in the things that are best for your well being.

Marriage, well when it comes to marriage make the right choice, to marry the person who has the guts to stand for you in any situation possible. That would be able to do anything to keep you by his/her side. Love is great but marriage is a lifetime commitment . Not all who fall in love end up marrying you. The real struggle starts when you step in practical life when you have to make choices for your love.Love might not see circumstances but marriage does. Islam surely has given the right to marry by showing your will, but it is even better if that will has the blessing of your family. In many situations parents are not willing to make their children make choices, try making them understand in the best way possible without hurting their feelings too. God knows what is best for you, try your level best and then leave things on ALLAH, he will do things in the best possible ways. Have trust 'EMAAN' on ALLAH SUBHAN WA TA'ALA . Indeed he knows what is in hearts.. I hope each one of you find the love of your life and marry them, but if that's not the case learn to let go and move on. I believe it will give you peace, pray for your loved ones always and keep loving and keep staying optimistic because love teaches all good things. Lastly, the more important version of love is 'Self Love'. Love yourself, cherish yourself and live happily. Make the right choices that won't let you regret ever. Keep praying eventually god will grant you that is best for you. Amen.

Love Ann.